Coping With Impostor Syndrome

BY DAVIDIAN LYON

Who here has Impostor Syndrome or has experienced that impostor feeling at one time in their life?

As a refresher, ‘Impostor Syndrome’ is the psychological phenomenon in which an individual doubts their accomplishments and/or has a fairly persistent fear of being exposed as a “fraud” or that there is nothing special about what they are offering, because other people either do something similar or are much more impressive in their delivery.

If you’ve experienced this before or have recurring bouts, you recognize that this can be a huge monkey on your back, to the point of being debilitating. I think a lot of people privately battle this one.

I’ve certainly experienced it.

When I “go there” internally, I try to remember that no one has my exact take on things, my perspective, my life experience, and certainly not my frequency.

That last part is particularly important, because with my frequency, I attract people who are on my fractal, and those people may not have been exposed to or will be exposed to what I am saying anywhere else.
They are being attracted to me via my frequency and when they hear it from me, they will finally have ears to hear what is being transmitted.

Even if they were exposed to the same info elsewhere, countless times before, when I say it, they will meet that info for the first time and if I followed my Strategy & Authority and waited for the right time to share my insight (coupled with other individual aspects of my Design), then it has a real chance of getting in there and making a difference in someone’s life, instead of falling on the same deaf ears who could not hear it earlier during those countless other times they were exposed to similar insights/intel.

We all add our frequency to the information we share… a carrier wave, if you will, that will either attract our listener to our intel, annoy them, or they simply won’t hear a single word we say.

When I experience Impostor Syndrome, I ask myself if I followed my aura mechanics before sharing and, if so, I remind myself that I am sharing my insight with those who will only hear it from me and/or need to hear what I’m saying at that moment in their life, and then have faith that my message will reach its intended target…those people I am here to serve.

How do you cope with IMPOSTOR SYNDROME?