THE SACRED AND OFTEN ELUSIVE... INVITATION

BY RAQUEL REYNA

There is a journey here for the Projector, in regards to THE INVITATION, and unfortunately, the invitation doesn’t typically arrive in a sealed envelope (although I am not saying that can never happen).

As a Projector, we may start out with this experiment thinking that waiting is almost impossible, or even painful. We live in a world where the majority of everyone (70% of the population) is moving full speed ahead, doing doing doing, hustling, making things happen, working harder, and putting demands on us to get things done. As a Projector, though, this way of working is not right for us… it’s even dangerous. We really need to dial into and trust our unique process of working in the world. Yet for most of the world, and most Projectors on the planet, you will absolutely find yourself getting swept up in the energy of POWER HOUSE, PEDAL TO THE METAL DOING, because unfortunately this is still the dominant way of the world. However, we are beginning to realize that when we overwork, particularly in a direction that we don’t enjoy, we enter a sort of imprisonment or enslavement. Generators can sustain doing disempowering work for longer periods and survive the experience with greater health, but eventually even they will find themselves totally frustrated, burned out, with a possible looming health crisis.

As Projectors, we are conditioned to work and keep up with the rest of the world, so we do, and because of our openness, we actually absorb this work force energy and we amplify it, thinking we have tons of energy, when we are actually running on fumes and heading towards total, can’t get out of bed, exhaustion. Projectors who don’t understand the mechanics of their aura type, work longer, harder, faster, and are usually more productive. Of course, they may become ill, burned out, find themselves suffering with chronic fatigue, or just drop dead at age 60, but they will very likely continue, barring having this knowledge of themselves, to seek to match the Generator’s work pace.

The Projector dilemma is how do we effectively work, create businesses, pay our bills and compete in a world where working harder and longer is the order of the day?

Well, let’s just say this… here is what happens when a Projector does not follow their Strategy, which is to WAIT TO BE RECOGNIZED and INVITED TO SHARE THEIR GIFTS/INSIGHT.

People simply will not see you. They will ignore your insights. Or people may see your genius, but steal your ideas, thinking they can take the insight and do it better. Or you talk and share your insight, but they don’t process what you just said, and later on, when your words or ideas pop into their consciousness, they think the idea just came to them…. that it was their unique insight. People will often literally pass you up, or not hire you, even though you know you can serve and help them immensely. Projectors have a deep penetrating insight and an uncanny knowing about what is right for the other, (this is what you are designed for) and you just try to tell them…and if they don’t listen, you might talk more or louder, but this just makes it worse. Uninvited Projectors come across and needy and whiney and that frequency is VERY uncomfortable to be around. It pushes others away and leads to more experiences of bitterness.

You feel this pressure to make people understand, to make people hear you. There’s a nagging, aching energy for your wisdom to be recognized. You know you have so much to say, to share, so much genius to offer…and yet when you go to DO something, it sort of backfires. Things just don’t work out for you…like they do for everyone else. It’s during these moments that you question your place in the Universe, wondering why THEY have results and you don’t. Why isn’t anyone reading MY posts, listening to MY podcasts, or watching MY videos? Why is it harder to get MY business off the ground? Slowly but surely, an often very disturbing bitterness develops. Or you just jump back into the workforce or follow the suggested strategies of the coaching gurus. You continue to work for it and strive, and might even have some success, if you push hard enough, but in addition to massively burning you out (like way more tired than everyone else), your results won’t FEEL successful or fruitful.

So, now you learn about HUMAN DESIGN, you learn about your particular Strategy and what it means to WAIT. You think, “Well, alright, I’ll experiment with this” and you continue to TRY to wait…and you wait.

But then panicky confusion overcomes you and you’re like, “How the heck can I pay my f-ing bills for goodness sakes…how long is it going to take for this invitation…and what is this invitation anyway?”

Your MIND questions your Strategy. It nags you and begs you to just get on with making it happen and forget this nonsense.

Oftentimes, you’ll justify or creatively interpret this or that…”It looks close enough like an invitation to me”. You might do this many times, until you finally decide to take this seriously and quiet your mind, so you can actually become still, and WAIT. You sit down and watch. Your feelers go out. See who is noticing you. See who is asking for your insight and what are they asking about? Because YOU KNOW A LOT.

During this period of waiting, you master a craft or a system. It’s ACTIVE WAITING. You become a master…not a complainer. You wait, and sometimes you wait longer than you even believe is humanly possible. But, when you do this, the Universe will take care of you and money does show up, and high-end clients do ask for your insight and you will be supported and recognized.

To wait for the Invitation…it seems simple enough…But it is not easy. It can take far longer than you expect and many people in your community or family will probably not understand. If you are in a corporate environment, they definitely won’t. But doing this gives you the opportunity to BECOME who you were designed to be.

It is also very important that you understand that you are also here to invite and to recognize others. You will feel this recognition in your body, slowly beginning to recognize what you need, and who/what is right for you! If you understand your chart and your life force, then you will see if someone can truly recognize you for who you really are. Because when someone genuinely recognizes your genius, and shows up to hear your insight, your brilliance shines, you light up, you animate with energy and you get to live your success.

Here is the cosmic joke…in business, both small and large businesses, the Projector is designed to be the Alpha. The leader or director of the business. The Projector is designed to see what needs to be done, how to do it most efficiently, and which roads will lead to faster success. Having said that, even if a Projector is invited in, they still must be careful to manage their energy and only work a few hours a day. This is why mastering a system is so important. Specialists and consultants can get away with working fewer hours and make good money doing such.

When you get invited for a particular business or opportunity, and are seen and recognized by the right people, you will feel seen, and recognized and you will KNOW SUCCESS!

The proper invitation might take a while, but like a great wine, it is well worth the wait.

One more note. When I first found out I was a Projector, all of my friends would say things like…I invite you to sell your program, I invite you to do this, or do that…trust me…I wish it worked that way. But it truly doesn’t. Waiting for the Invitation is an initiation of sorts. It’s a journey of deep DEEP DEEP trust, DEEP surrender…it’s a moving away from the pain of overworking and bitterness into a life that just feels right. Don’t let your mind screw that up for you. Live correctly, based on your aura mechanics. Experiment.

The Projector is still the most misunderstood Type and can go an entire lifetime feeling ignored, burned out, and bitter. Our day has not quite arrived. Can you imagine the CEO of a large corporation leading, directing, but only showing up 3 hours a day. It’s not likely to show up in our collective culture just yet, but we are here to lead the way. You have an important part to play.
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So Generators, recognize us and invite us to be ourselves.